Are Asian girls easy?

Updated: Apr 5

So you've had this one friend who went on holiday in the Philippines and who told you all about those crazy sex stories.

And you asked "are Asian girls easy, really?"

Or you met this friend who went to holiday in Thailand and got laid every day.

You asked again, "dude, really, are Asian girls easy?"

So since I've been living and meeting women in different Asian countries for over 5 years now.

I figured my experience would be relevant in answering that "are Asian girls easy?" question.

In this article, we will answer "are Asian girls easy?" but also go in-depth and learn:

  • Why Asian women like foreigners.

  • What kind of Asian women like foreigners.

  • What makes a guy successful (or not) in dating attractive Asian women.

  • Why you should look for high-value Asian women.

  • And generally, my experience picking up Asian girls for years.

How Asian Women See You as a Foreigner

Since we are talking about Asian women I think it's important to lay down exactly what we're talking about.

Asia is a big place.

And before we ask are Asian girls easy, we need to figure out who we're talking about.

People from Asia live all over the world.

So we'll take out countries where Islam is the dominant religion, and countries with patterns of socializing that aren't at all similar to the West.

And obviously, we'll take out Western women of Asian heritage.

This leaves us with roughly South-East Asia:

  • Japan

  • China

  • Korea

  • Thailand

  • Cambodia

  • Vietnam

  • Laos

  • Indonesia

  • Philippines

Because let's be honest.

When people ask are Asian girls easy:

It's really about women from those countries specifically.

The Color of your Skin Means Something

If you compare it with Western cultures, you will find that Asian cultures are very racist and bent on stereotypes.

In fact, this phenomenon even has its own Wikipedia page.

So are Asian girls easy?

Well, that will vary a lot depending on what kind of foreigner you are.

The common Asian racial stereotypes go like this :

  • White people are clean and rich.

  • Black people are rough and tough.

  • Everyone else has some degree of country-specific stereotype.

And most generally in Asia, the whiter your skin (literal white, not Caucasian white), the more rich and beautiful you're perceived.

The logic is that the whiter your skin, the more your lifestyle keeps you away from working in a field under the sun.

And therefore the wealthier you're supposed to be.

So are Asian girls easy?

Well, more if you're white.

Basically, as a white guy you get a clear +3 charisma bonus by default.

Traditional Asian Media Plays in your Favor

The way foreigners are depicted in general in Asian countries matters a lot.

There is a subconscious idea of what a "man from abroad is" here.

  • Wealthy

  • Successful

  • Educated

Hollywood movies sure played a HUGE role in this.

The Asian mainstream very often depicts the Asian man as the gentle rich boyfriend.

And the foreigner as the dangerous bad boy.

In other words, the mainstream pushes even further this idea that Asian men are good providers and foreigners are good lovers.

And you and I both know which one of those two categories women tend to sleep with.

Most Local Men Have Terrible Game

So you're also playing against the local competition.

And this plays a role in answering the question are Asian girls easy.

Quite frankly, most local girls will tell you the same things about it.

Asian men are:

  • Jealous.

  • Over-protective.

  • Passive.

  • And on top of that, they tend to cheat a lot.

At least according to the last 10 girls I've dated and asked this question to.

That's a huge generalization of course, and a lot of foreigners do those too.

But I found it funny that those same 4 things always come back whenever I ask my date why she stopped dating Asian men whatsoever.

And considering that Asian societies encourage group identity, obedience, and traditional values, I don't see this changing anytime soon.

If you're a great guy who is on top of his game then the answer to are Asian girls easy is yes.

Especially when compared to the local competition.

You Are an Exotic Snowflake

When you come from abroad you have that exotic vibe that is attractive anywhere in the world.

  • Tourists have a ton of stories to tell.

  • Expats get thrown into incredible social circles.

  • Foreigners are rare, therefore valuable.

This plays a huge role.

Again let's ask, are Asian girls easy?

If you're traveling, you are interesting.

And definitely, it will be easier for you.

30 years ago it was very rare to see foreigners in a lot of Asian countries.

I've lived in a 15 million souls city in China and people would stop me on the street to take photos with me.

Are Asian girls easy considering they stop white guys to talk to them?

Well those girls, of course.

Because they had never seen a non-Asian before.

A foreigner is, still, rare in Asia.

And what is rare is more valuable than what is not.

Where you go matters. A foreigner is way less special in Bali or Hong Kong than he is in Seoul or Chongqing.

Do Asian Girls Like Foreign Men?

Most of the female Asian population doesn't care about dating foreigners.

Simply because they don't understand English well enough.

It's just too far-fetched to seriously date someone whose culture is so different from theirs.

Some women will be curious and go past that.

Some will even date foreigners exclusively.

So unless you speak local, you will mostly get with girls who look for foreigners.

But then...

Are Asian girls easy if you're a white male?

(and should you give up any hope if you aren't??)

Who You Will Attract as a Foreigner in Asia

We saw above that it's quite easy to attract some girls as a foreigner.

So to answer, are Asian girls easy?

Well, at least for the part of the population that's extremely interested in foreigners.

But honestly, what does that leave you with, in the end?